Please first read: Matthew 12:46-50; Mark 3:31-35; Luke
8:19-21
“And he
gave them charge concerning her, (Mary) saying, I go my way, for my Father hath
sent me. And whosoever shall do the will of my Father which is in heaven,
the same is my brother, and sister, and mother.” (JST Mathew 12:44)
Apostle Bruce
R. McConkie:
“Jesus
had brothers and sisters who were the offspring of Joseph and
Mary. Regarding Mary, the plain meaning of a host of scriptures is that
she bore Joseph’s children, children who were the half-brothers and
half-sisters of the Son of God. (Matthew 12:46) Jesus had more than one
sister and at least four brothers – James, Joses (Joseph), Simon and Judas. (Matthew
13:55) These children lived with Mary and were regarded by the people as
members of her family.”
(John
2:12; 7: 3)
“They
seem to have been jealous of Jesus and may not have believed in his divine
Sonship until after the resurrection. (Mark 3:21; 6: 3-4; John 7:5) None
of his brothers were included in the original Twelve, but they seem to have
been converted after the resurrection by his appearance to James. (1 Corinthians
15:7) Thereafter they associated themselves with the disciples. (Acts 1:14; 1
Corinthians 9:5) One of them, James, was later called to the apostleship.” (Galatians
1:19)
“Apparently
the message that his mother and his brethren sought audience with Jesus caused
another woman (undoubtedly herself a mother) to speak these words of praise for
Mary. With them Jesus agreed. But then he taught that it is not
motherhood of itself, but obedience to the word of God, that brings
blessings.” (Luke 11:27-28)
“Jesus
here comments that Mary and his brothers are members of his literal earthly
family, and he, as the eldest son, gives directions as to what the others
should do in caring for their mother. The clear inference is that Joseph
was dead and hence the sons of Mary were attending to her needs. Then he
reminds them that though they have the same mother, yet God is his Father and
that he must continue about his Father’s business.” (JST Matthew 13:44)
We
remember that years earlier Jesus told his mother. “I must be about my Fathers
business” and so again now. This was a golden opportunity to preach
the Gospel and make the point that if, after we hear the ‘word,’ we ‘do it,’
we become part of Jesus’ family. The terms for mother and brethren are here
used figuratively and thus by doing what Jesus teaches we become his Spiritual
kinsmen. (Luke 8:19-21)
Mary and
some other family members may have been genuinely concerned for Jesus’ health
because of his ongoing and untiring efforts in healing and teaching the throngs
of people; trying to get him to rest for a while. (Mark 3:31-35) The
Jewish culture engendered a strong emphasis on filial responsibility, (Exodus
20:12) but the scriptures also related instances where severing allegiance and
family ties was a necessary choice in following God. (Exodus
32:8-9) Those in attendance would watch with interest to see how Jesus
would react to the calls of his family. It was a good opportunity for
Jesus to emphasize that those who do the will of God thus become part of God’s
family; and without negatively impacting his earthly mother and
siblings. The Greek structure and use of the nouns brother, sister, and
mother are again figurative, and allow for Jesus to ‘know’ others in that same
relationship.
Jesus’
mother, brothers and sister(s) were outside (or on the edge of the crowd.) The
Greek record indicates that they were trying to find a way into the house in
order to speak to him. The press of the crowd was such that the house and
entrance passageways were all filled with people. Jesus’ response shows no
lack of respect for his family. He is merely going on with the work God
his Father has sent him to do. Everyone who believes in him and does what
he says (the will of the Father) becomes encircled in the family of the Father
and the Son. The emphasis here is on doing, not just hearing. (Matthew 12:46-50)
The
Twelve and others who are working and traveling with Jesus are receiving this
message in various wordings over and over in testimonies by the
Savior. What a glorious experience!
Glenn R.
McGettigan
April 2016
References:
“Doctrinal
New Testament Commentary.” McConkie:
“Mortal
Messiah.” Volume 2. McConkie
“Jesus
the Christ.” Talmage
“The Four
Gospels.” Ludlow
“The
Biblical Commentary – Matthew, Mark, and Luke.”